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ABUSE IN SAME-SEX RELATIONSHIPS

Just as domestic violence crosses class and racial lines, it also crosses the lines of sexual-preference. The dynamics of domestic violence are similar in all types of intimate relationships, including lesbian and gay relationships. However, there are some demonstrations of power and control that are unique to same-sex relationships.

For example, the batterer may:

  • “out” his/her partner without their permission
  • insist that his/her partner be “closeted”
  • use the already marginalized position of homosexuals to further isolate his/her partner
  • insist the abuse is mutual, supported by the myth that women don’t hurt each other or two men would both be responsible
  • use the lack of legal rights (i.e. marriage rights) to threaten and control
  • tell his/her partner that there’s no help for them because of their sexuality

Resources for Same-Sex Partners

Communities United Against Violence (CUAV)
A 20-year old multicultural organization working to end violence against and within lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer/questioning (LGBTQ) communities. They offer a 24-hour multilingual crisis line, free counseling, legal advocacy, and emergency assistance to survivors of violence.

website: www.cuav.org
phone: 415.333.HELP (4357)

W.O.M.A.N., Inc.
A multi-service agency that offers comprehensive services to women battered by women, including support groups, counseling, and restraining orders specifically for lesbian, bisexual, and transgender women, as well as community education regarding woman-to-woman abuse.

website: www.womaninc.org
phone: 415.864.4722
24-hour crisis line: 877.384.3578

Asian Women's Shelter
Queer Asian Women's Services (QAWS) addresses relationship violence among lesbian, bisexual, and transgender women. QAWS responds to the needs of queer Asian women survivors, as well as organizes in the community to change values and build innovative responses beyond conventional shelters and institution-centered services to end violence in same gender relationships.

website: www.sfaws.org
phone: 877.751.0880

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